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The Weight We Carry - A Short Film on the Mental Health of Single Mothers

(Episode 3)

Strength doesn’t mean carrying everything alone.
 

The Weight We Carry explores the mental health challenges faced by single mothers, highlighting the emotional labor, chronic stress, and resilience required to care for others while often neglecting oneself.


The film centers compassion, reminding us that strength is not self-sacrifice—it is knowing when to ask for help.

Single Parent Mental Health — By the Numbers (U.S.)

Single parents—and especially single mothers—face unique challenges that can take a significant toll on mental health. Research and mental health resources highlight the emotional and psychological burden associated with raising children alone:

 

  • Feelings of loneliness and decision-making strain are common among single parents due to the constant responsibility of making choices without a co-parent, which can be mentally taxing and contribute to emotional fatigue.
  • Studies show that single parents tend to experience higher levels of psychological distress compared with partnered parents. One analysis found that 32% of single mothers reported moderate or severe psychological distress, compared with 19% of married mothers—a disparity linked to social and financial pressures.
  • Single parent families often contend with financial strain, isolation, and limited support networks, all of which are known contributors to anxiety, stress, and depressive symptoms. Approximately 23% of U.S. children live with a single parent, indicating how widespread and impactful this family structure is.
  • Research also shows that single parents, particularly single mothers, are more at risk for depressive symptoms and other mental health challenges than partnered parents, even when controlling for socioeconomic factors.

 

These statistics reflect broader social and emotional realities, not just numbers on a page. Behind each percentage are individuals balancing the full weight of caregiving, financial responsibility, and emotional labor—often without sufficient support.

 

Recognizing the mental health challenges single parents face is essential to understanding the lived experience behind The Weight We Carry and creating compassionate spaces where these stories can be seen, heard, and supported.

 

Sources

Mental Health America — Mental Health and the Single Parent
https://mhanational.org/resources/mental-health-and-the-single-parent/

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THEMES EXPLORED

1. Invisible Emotional Labor

Single mothers carry an ongoing mental and emotional load that often goes unseen or unacknowledged.

2. Chronic Stress and Burnout

Without adequate support, stress accumulates—impacting mental health, decision-making, and wellbeing.

3. Strength Through Vulnerability

The film reframes strength as vulnerability, challenging the belief that asking for help is failure.

4. Isolation and Support Gaps

Limited access to support systems increases emotional strain and reinforces isolation.

5. Resilience Rooted in Love

Despite hardship, love remains a driving force—fueling perseverance even on the hardest days

Discussion Questions

Perfect for screenings, workshops, youth groups, classrooms, or mental health sessions.

  1. What emotional burdens were most visible?

  2. How does society overlook the mental health of single mothers?

  3. What prevents caregivers from asking for help?

  4. How does the film redefine resilience?

  5. What community support could reduce this burden?

Mental Health Resources

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline – Call or text 988

  • NAMI HelpLine – 1-800-950-6264

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